How do u define LACK OF ATTENTION? |
Friday, June 6, 2008 at 6/06/2008 10:20:00 PM |
I stumbled across someone's blog recently. He is saying that blogger who blog about things like how to get more ppl to view their blog and stuff are PATHETIC. Because they are NOT xia hue or kenny sia (whatever) They are just lack of attention.
SERIOUSLY, Xia Xue and whoever the guy is are people that's LOA too. No i should paraphrase. They are attention seeker. Just that they become famous. They got the attention so NO ONE is saying they LOA
In fact, in MY opinion, Everyone is an attention seeker. The only difference is How much attention u want. Yes that includes me as well :) I LOVE ATTENTION! And it's perfectly normal. I don't think It's pathetic at all! Because they wants attention in the positive ways :) That's good!
You know what's pathetic? Pathetic is when people get attention from HURTING. Let me elaborate.. They get attention from hurting others and people around them.
Hurting other? There are people who back stab others and hurt friends around them. People who uses nasty adjectives on others and hurt others feeling. People who uses methods UNSCRUPULOUS method to get attention. This is what i call pathetic. YOU hurt others to get attention to yourself. And some people might just die because of your "unintentional" method. OF COURSE these people seems weak. BUT u aren't any better. so yeah, in order to get attention u hurt others and MIGHT kill some1 Is it all worth it? Think about it...
Hurting yourself? This is also pathetic. Some people cut themselves, Steal, Rob, Kill, Misbehave, Indulge in self-pity to get attention. Of course people will give u attention at first BUT it won last. As time goes people will just ignore u In fact, they will think that u are being annoying. AND i seriously DESPISE people who indulge in self-pity. They go around telling people about how BIG their problem is. BLOGGING how their life sucks? oh please! Some of your problems are just PEANUT compared to others. EVERYONE has their own problems. so what makes u think your life is the worst? why should people even pity u? or give u the attention. Of course! I am not saying u cant grumble abt life and how life sucks. I do that too! BUT after all grumbling pick up your pieces and continue your way.
You know how fortunate some of you guys are? u have love from family. so Don't say your life sucks no 1 care about u because there are people who do. Of course some people are not so fortunate. They don't have family love. BUT IT IS NOT AN EXCUSE TO BE EMO AND PATHETIC because I don't have too. so learn to LOVE yourself. Let me tell you, If u are NOT going to LOVE yourself NO ONE else EVER will. So WAKE UP from your emo world! and STOP being pathetic. because in the end NO ONE will give u the kind of attention u want
PEOPLE will either start hating u and dislike u. If u want attention do it in the positive way. :) think abt it.
Life is a song and I'll play for you.
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