|How to be confident?
|Friday, June 13, 2008 at 6/13/2008 02:16:00 PM
I stumbled upon a girl's blog recently
She was saying thatIt's easy for superstars and celebritiesto say be confidence.BUT in reality it isn'tThose superstars and celebritiesalready are prettyBUT we aren'tActually I think otherwise.To be confidence is easyBUT it's a matter of whether u WANT to or NOT.IF I can do itI don't see why u guys cant.I am not a super stars nor celebritiesI am not pretty in fact i Am very FAT!(the one at the right is me, I'm not lying when i say I'm fat)So I have a few tricks to teach u all.BUT whether u want tolisten it's up to u :)
TELL YOURSELF SOMETHING GOOD ABT YOURSELF.
if u heard others saying something bad abt u.
For example, ppl say I'm fat
I tell myself I'm pretty
so it doesn't matter that I'm fat :)
If ppl say Your boobs are small.
Tell yourself I have a nice ass.
God is fair.
When he gave u something bad,
He will give u something good too :)
If people say your legs too short,
Tell yourself I have a nice complexion.
Whatever good things u can think of
Don't let your looks affect how u feel.
People say u are too boyish.
Tell yourself i have my soft side.
U must know your limits.
Somethings can be changed.
If ppl say there's something wrong with your attitude.
I think u need to reflect and think.
BUT if it's 1 person
maybe u don't need to care
BUT if EVERY1 say that pls do change.
DRESS WHAT U WANT !
Don't let others glance stop u from wearing
what u want.
If u are fat and u wanna wear sleveless
When ppl looked at u.
When ppl comment so fat still wear like that.
Most likely they are jealous that
u dare to wear and they don't.
If your legs are short
U wanna wear miniskirts
People looked at u
Because they are giving u attention :)
What matters is u are happy.
DON'T care about them
the most u are just making their eyes sore
It ain't bothering u :)
WORDS shouldn't hurt u unless u let them :)
If little comments can change ur mind
abt what u wanna wear and do
I PITY U
U will have a hard time living in this world.
so FUCK IT and rule your own world.
IF U CANNOT DO THE ABOVE.
If u mind that ppl say u are too fat.
If u mind ppl say your legs too short
Boobs too small
whatever it is
go for it!
Don't sit down there do nth
and u whine and whine
say u have low self esteem and all.
BUT if u choose the last option.
Cos ppl will still say things
no matter how pretty you've become.
So If u don't mind changing your whole life
den choose this option.
BUT i really pity u
Because u don't live for yourself
you live for others.
YOU will NEVER find long lasting happiness :)
Above are ways to become confident!
The way to be confident is
LIVE FOR YOURSELF
What is impt is u are happy :)
WHEN I SAY BE YOURSELF
pls do dress appropriately.
Don't live in self deception.
U know u haven give your best by
and u still tell yourself u look good.
Then good luck to you!
Most important is dress smart and clean :)
If u need advice on how to dress
ask your friends
They will be willing to help :)
Good Luck in building your self confidence!
This can be appiled to anyone as long as u are human
Life is a song and I'll play for you.