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How to be confident?

Friday, June 13, 2008 at 6/13/2008 02:16:00 PM

I stumbled upon a girl's blog recently

She was saying that
It's easy for superstars and celebrities
to say be confidence.
BUT in reality it isn't
Those superstars and celebrities
already are pretty
BUT we aren't

Actually I think otherwise.
To be confidence is easy
BUT it's a matter of whether u WANT to or NOT.
IF I can do it
I don't see why u guys cant.
I am not a super stars nor celebrities
I am not pretty in fact i Am very FAT!

(the one at the right is me, I'm not lying when i say I'm fat)

So I have a few tricks to teach u all.
BUT whether u want to
listen it's up to u :)

Firstly,
TELL YOURSELF SOMETHING GOOD ABT YOURSELF.
if u heard others saying something bad abt u.
For example, ppl say I'm fat
I tell myself I'm pretty
so it doesn't matter that I'm fat :)
If ppl say Your boobs are small.
Tell yourself I have a nice ass.
God is fair.
When he gave u something bad,
He will give u something good too :)
If people say your legs too short,
Tell yourself I have a nice complexion.
Whatever good things u can think of
tell yourself.
Don't let your looks affect how u feel.
People say u are too boyish.
Tell yourself i have my soft side.
HOWEVER
U must know your limits.
Somethings can be changed.
If ppl say there's something wrong with your attitude.
I think u need to reflect and think.
BUT if it's 1 person
maybe u don't need to care
BUT if EVERY1 say that pls do change.

Secondly,
DRESS WHAT U WANT !
Don't let others glance stop u from wearing
what u want.
If u are fat and u wanna wear sleveless
GO AHEAD!
When ppl looked at u.
IGNORE THEM..
When ppl comment so fat still wear like that.
FUCK IT.
Most likely they are jealous that
u dare to wear and they don't.
If your legs are short
U wanna wear miniskirts
GO AHEAD!!!
People looked at u
LET THEM
Because they are giving u attention :)
What matters is u are happy.
DON'T care about them
the most u are just making their eyes sore
It ain't bothering u :)
WORDS shouldn't hurt u unless u let them :)
If little comments can change ur mind
abt what u wanna wear and do
I PITY U
U will have a hard time living in this world.
so FUCK IT and rule your own world.

Lastly,
IF U CANNOT DO THE ABOVE.
CHANGE!!!
If u mind that ppl say u are too fat.
den DIET!!
If u mind ppl say your legs too short
Boobs too small
whatever it is
PLASTIC SURGERY
go for it!
Don't sit down there do nth
and u whine and whine
say u have low self esteem and all.
That's CRAP.
BUT if u choose the last option.
THINK TWICE.
Cos ppl will still say things
no matter how pretty you've become.
So If u don't mind changing your whole life
den choose this option.
BUT i really pity u
Because u don't live for yourself
you live for others.
YOU will NEVER find long lasting happiness :)

Above are ways to become confident!
BUT seriously,
The way to be confident is
LIVE FOR YOURSELF
What is impt is u are happy :)
However,
WHEN I SAY BE YOURSELF
pls do dress appropriately.
Don't live in self deception.
U know u haven give your best by
dressing smartly.
and u still tell yourself u look good.
Then good luck to you!
LOL
Most important is dress smart and clean :)
If u need advice on how to dress
ask your friends
They will be willing to help :)
Good Luck in building your self confidence!

This can be appiled to anyone as long as u are human
:)

Life is a song and I'll play for you.